Not all discoveries happen in a book. Some happen here. The last few days have been interesting. I went looking for answers and instead found questions. I sat on the beach wondering why I kept encountering denial in my life. As I followed the thread, something unexpected appeared. It wasn't about what was being denied. It was about who. The realization landed: I had been denying my own existence. I was not doing this consciously nor was it in a dramatic way. Simply thr