Sometimes The Most Loving Thing You Can Say Is "Shut Up"

Client’s deep in it: She’s doing the work — inner child healing, shadow work, manifesting. Things start shifting… and then boom:

• Something breaks

• Career and job opportunities disappear

• The relationship seems to become bothersome

• A family functions and celebration become a war zone where you are the target.

• Healthwise the bubble guts singing that same tune

  
  

She’s spiraling. And I get it. I’ve been there. But I caught myself trying to fix her pain — and something in me snapped, I yelled louder than she was speaking to get to the truth:

“Shut up.” Maintain your position. You know what’s happening — the ego is just pulling you back into stories, trying to make sense of things, trying to control what can only be surrendered to.

I reminded her:

• She’s not here to convince anyone of anything.

• She’s not wrong for being aware when others aren't.

• And “God” — as taught in church — has nothing to do with what she’s discovering now. Let that name go if it no longer fits.

There’s nothing to fix. No grand lesson to learn. No divine punishment.

The Universe is self-correcting. All she needs to do is stay present and witness. Act when moved, not when panicked. She didn’t need comfort. She needed someone to hold that space and not flinch, when the spirit of self-doubt showed up.

And honestly? So, did I. Because that moment wasn’t just about her awakening. It was about me remembering who I am: A frequency holder. A pattern disruptor. A woman who no longer shapeshifts to make others more comfortable with their unconsciousness. This is the edge where truth lives. If you’re here too…Hold steady. We’re not alone anymore.

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